Keeping Our Sons Intact

Circumcision rates are decreasing in the United States. More and more families are choosing to keep their sons intact. If you are expecting a boy do your own research and make an informed decision for your family.

15 Facts about the Foreskin from The Nurturing Root:

  1. Originally, the goal of circumcision was to desensitize the penis to curb masturbation. Dr. Kellogg, inventor of the corn flakes, was a major promoter of the procedure. 
  2. The foreskin, containing 20,000 nerve endings as opposed to the 8,000 in a clitoris, is a highly sensitive, functioning part of the male anatomy.  It’s purpose is to protect the glans, or the head of the penis from abrasions and to keep dirt and bacteria from the urinary tract. 
  3. The average adult foreskin consists of 1½ inches of outer skin, 1½ inches of inner mucosal lining – totaling a length of 3 inches – and is 5 inches in circumference when erect. This amounts to a surface area of 15 square inches, or a surface area equivalent to that of a 3″ by 5″ inch index card. 
  4. Circumcision is not routinely practiced in most countries.  In fact, The United States is the ONLY country where circumcision is done routinely for non-religious reasons. Aside from being a Muslim and Jewish cultural practice, it is a very American practice. 
  5. After reviewing 40 years of research, it has been determined by the American Academy of Pediatrics that routine infant circumcision cannot be recommended.  In fact, no professional medical association in the world recommends routine infant circumcision, nor do they state it is medically necessary. 
  6. When the foreskin is removed, the head of the penis can develop a thick layer of skin to protect it, making it much less sensitive.  As a result, circumcised men are 3 times more likely to have issues with erectile dysfunction. 
  7. Circumcision can reduce a baby’s risk of getting an urinary tract infection (UTI) by 1%.  In other words, in order to prevent 1 UTI, 100 circumcisions would need to be performed. 
  8. It has been claimed that circumcision can reduce one’s risk of contracting HIV/AIDS. The United States has one of the highest incidence of HIV/AIDS, yet we are the only country that routinely circumcises male babies. 
  9. A foreskin doesn’t separate from the head of the penis until adolescence, sometime between 3 and 15 years of age.  Until this separation occurs, you only need to clean the outside of the penis.  You clean it just as you would any other part of your body.  In fact, a newly circumcised penis, which has an open wound, may be more difficult to clean and care for during diapering. 
  10. 117 babies die each year as a result of circumcision complications. The foreskin and penis is a highly vascularized area that contains a significant amount of blood flow. A newborn only has a total of  11.5 ounces of blood.  That’s just shy of a cup-and-a-half.  A newborn only needs to lose 1 ounce to hemorrhage, and 2.3 ounces, which is a the amount in a shot glass, to bleed to death.  You can read more about it here from 
  11. According to the CDC, circumcision rates have fallen to 55.4% in the United States. 
  12. A Mohel, a person specially trained  in circumcision techniques, can perform the circumcision, even on non-Jews.  It has been argued the Mohels perform the procedure more quickly and gently than in clinical settings. 
  13. Cortisol levels, a stress hormone, are 3-4 times higher during circumcision than prior to the procedure, which can contribute to post-op breastfeeding challenges.  It is also thought that the pain and trauma from undergoing circumcision may impact the child’s response to pain or stress throughout their life.  Canadian investigators report that during vaccinations at age 4-6 months, circumcised boys had an increased behavioral pain response and cried for significantly longer periods than did intact boys. For more information about this click here. 
  14. Foreskins are harvested to make high-end face creams and are often used for cosmetic testing to determine a product’s safety. 
  15. Anti-circumcision activists are referred to as intactivists.

I knew from a young age that I wanted to keep my future sons intact because I believe foreskin is there for a reason and that circumcision is an “elective” surgery. However, I am not the only parent and believe a Father should also have a say in their child’s well being.

My husband David is a circumcised man, like most Americans. He was raised with the idea that that was the normal way a penis should be and look. But once I started showing him research —botched circumcision, that foreskin has a purpose, that it does cause trauma, and that babies can die from it  — he really felt he had been misinformed and changed his point of view.

After researching and learning more about the history of circumcision’s he began to feel that something had been taken from him; a piece of his body that should have been left intact was not, and he got upset about it. I mean, what man wouldn’t get upset when they find out that uncircumcised men have an increased sense of pleasure during intimacy, and that it’s actually been shown to be more enjoyable for the woman too?!

David and I made the informed decision that we wanted any boys we had to stay intact and NOT be cut. We wanted to leave their body the way it was designed to be just like we would leave a daughter’s body alone.

I often hear people say that they choose to circumcise because they don’t want their sons to look different than their Father. I asked David what he will say if asked why his penis looks different, “I will tell him that I love him and I wanted to give him the happiest life I could. I wasn’t given the choice so I am leaving it to HIM to choose.”

And yes, for those wondering, men can be circumcised later in life if that is THEIR choice.

Here are some links to additional sources of information on KEEPING OUR SONS INTACT!!

Your Whole Baby

Saving Our Sons

Doctors Opposing Circumcision

Bloodstained Men

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